Confidence is a trait that we all aspire to have, but building it can be incredibly difficult - especially if you have faced a series of knocks to your confidence and esteem in the past. It's something I certainly struggle with but I'm determined to overcome my worries. You deserve to feel confident in all that you do - whether that means you hold your head a little higher when giving an important presentation at work or start smiling when you see your reflection as opposed to searching for flaws.
With that in mind, here are some confidence-boosting tips that you can use to start living your best life...today.
Begin celebrating the little quirks that make you who you are as opposed to picking them apart. For example, if you have a particularly loud laugh, think about how laughter is such a great way of expressing yourself and sharing joy with others instead of trying to tone it down. Embracing your quirky personality and individuality will in turn boost your confidence.
Shake up your wardrobe and find clothes that you love instead of wearing what you think you should wear. For example, just because a particular style of clothing is popular doesn’t mean you have to wear it - especially if your personal style lies elsewhere. Focus on outfits that make you feel comfortable or express your personality - confidence will soon follow when you do. For me this jumpsuit from makes me feel snazzy as hell!
We often look and feel our best when we are well-rested. Therefore, you should focus on getting plenty of sleep and taking a break whenever you need one.
Develop a skincare routine that deals with any issues you may be facing - whether you are battling acne or looking to fight signs of aging. Thankfully, there are loads of anti aging skincare products on the market that can help you obtain a natural, youthful glow that is sure to boost your confidence. Remember, as with any routine - it’s important you stick with it. You can’t apply a little moisturizer one day and expect your skin to look great for the rest of the month.
Practice giving yourself small compliments throughout the day - whether that means you compliment yourself on a job well done at work or celebrate whenever you have a perfect hair day. The kinder you are to yourself, the better as it means you will stop seeking validation elsewhere - as you already have it within yourself.
If you’re struggling to voice your opinions at work, assure yourself that you got that job for a reason. You are no less qualified than anybody else in your position - and deserve to have your voice heard. Do not let others sow seeds of doubt within your head - as you know your own skill set better than anybody else.
If you’re looking to feel more confident, you need to challenge yourself. Try to do one thing each day that lies outside of your comfort zone, as this kind of risk will allow you to realize just how great you are and give you a much-needed boost of confidence - even if it doesn’t always work out in your favor. Don’t let your worries stop you from trying something new - especially if it relates to something you’ve always wanted to do!
The final thing I'd recommend is doing what makes you happy. If that's dancing in front of the mirror and singing to your favourite songs- go for it. At the end of the day, you do you and being your authentic self will always boost your confidence rather than trying to fit in or be what you feel others want you to be.